Juggling Motherhood and Medical School Work
October 7th, 2008
Medical school prepares you to face a profession where you will be called “Doctor” by patients, co-workers and even superiors and professionals in the field of medicine. But what if you are also being called “Mom” or “Mama” by smaller voices while studying in medical school? Though being a mother while preparing to be a doctor can prove a challenge, it should not hinder you from reaching for your goal.
Balancing motherhood with medical school
Raising a child (or a family) and attending medical school at the same time may seem like the ultimate challenge that would probably drive any homemaker crazy. However, see the situation as it is but in a positive light. Yes it would be a challenge to be a mother and a medical student at the same time, but you will get past it with hard work and proper management. Learn how to take one step at a time, based on the importance of the task at hand. Devoting your attention to one item at the moment can help you focus and leave no mistakes behind.
Worrying about your child
It’s typical of a mother to worry about her child. But if you’ve got other stuff to putter about such as your finals in pharmacology, maybe it’s time to ask for help from your partner, a relative, or a professional caregiver. Once you’ve had someone help you out with the child, you can turn your thoughts to your studies for the meantime. Don’t worry about not giving enough attention to your child as you can always see him or her later when you’re done studying. Though guilt may creep up on you every now and then, think about how becoming a doctor can also help you prepare for your child’s future. Motherhood should not stop your dreams. Instead, you’ve actually had more reason to go on and become a doctor.
Overcoming physical and mental stress
Aside from exerting effort in studying, caring for the needs of your family may also add a lot of physical and mental stress to you. Instead of breaking down and throwing in the towel, learn how to lighten up and take it easy. Appreciate the small things such as a compliment for your recitation, additional points for an exam, and even your baby’s warm, sticky embrace. Remember that medical school only lasts a few years and all of these shall pass. And when you finally pass your medical exams and graduate, you’ll carry two titles of distinction in two of the most prestigious fields.
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